During our time together, you will be getting know me very well. I probably won’t be able to get to know you but that’s just how blogging works. Idk, it might? I’ll figure it out eventually.

I’m obviously not going to be using my real name for this blog so I’m going to make some names up. I’ll be Noel, my husband will be Gordon, and my daughter is Mae, so here we go.

Hi! My name is Noel, and I am a young mother who is trying to get my shit together while also trying to be the best mother I can be. I am very much in love with my husband, I couldn’t do what I need to without him. My daughter Mae is my rainbow baby, and I love her more than words could ever explain. Gordon and I wanted Mae so bad, and it took less than two weeks for me to get pregnant when we started trying.

I’ve had a lot of life experiences and they’ve shown me to have a certain outlook on life. Life is too short to be stressed out constantly. My favorite thing to say is “Ain’t no use in crying over spilled milk.” (unless it’s breast milk, then you can cry all you want) If you can’t change the situation, then there’s no point in getting yourself worked up and stressing over it.

I really hope my shared experiences can help other moms know they aren’t alone, and that you can still have a normal adulthood, even if your childhood wasn’t.